RSSThe Fever
You see us, looking into each other’s eyes, hands touching. Why is it then that when I ride the cross-town bus, people are so fascinated by us? I was going to write this long piece on how my little sister (black) loved my girlfriend (white) from day one. And how I love both of them unconditionally. Then I was going to talk about the black women who scowl at my girlfriend like she’s the devil. But honestly at this point, I don’t give a fuck. But I do. I love my black sisters and I love my girlfriend.
If I try to explain it, I’ll mess it up. So I will repeat what was said to me by a friend… “Hate comes from people not loving themselves.”
If this is the case, when black women hate on me and my girl is it because they don’t love themselves? Is it a reflection of the low self-esteem that has saturated the black community?Because society portrays beauty with images of white women, does my being with a white women substantiate this ideal?
To my sisters: Society may paint you as angry, but you don’t have to be. Words can’t amount to what you go through daily, but my girl loves you, my sister loves herself and if you don’t, you should.
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The R
Until the shortage resolved black women need black men…man up and get a sister…people stare cause they wonder if another black man has given up on his sisters..is it just sex..the fever….surrender or love…people don’t know hence they stare.. and sure some people are just appalled and ticked off…but deal with it…you know what u got yourself into so why seek approval??
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TROUBLMan
BOOSY
I’ve dated various races and I’ve experienced the same thing. Shit, I even get the nasty looks when I’m with a light skinned black girl.
My black homegirls be like, “Why you never date black women.”
I respond ” I do, so-and-so is black.”
“She not black, she mixed.”
It’s that same Obama-is-he-black-enough thing.
How do white men react when they see you with one of their daughters?
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Malia
Aaaaaaaw I love you today Boosy!!!!!!! You have once again let me inside of you just a little and I am pleased with what I see. This is actually a great question/topic and I am on the fence, both understanding from a black womann’s point of view and because I’m bi-racial (Filipino/Black/White/Cherokee) understanding the racial prejudice held by others toward me. Like you, it’s hard for me to explain without messing it all up. Let me just say that I am never black enough, I am never asian enough, I’m never even considered White or Cherokee - so I never even share that with people unless they really want to get to know ME.
I had a boyfriend who was soooooo black that he was blue (no kidding) but he was gorgeous all the same. We would go to Venice Beach and walk the strip holding hands and Black girls would snare and say unabashedly, “He would be with someone like ‘her’.” This wasn’t a one time occurance, this was all the time. It really pissed me off that I had to prove my “blackness” or my “love” to ANYONE - red, yellow, purple or blue. My mother has been judged her entire life because of the choices she made and she was even forced to give up her Black son for adoption by her parents when she was sixteen. ((It’s funny because all of my grandfather’s children married Black, so now all of his grandchildren are Black and he LOVED us all…..)) See, now I’m getting off subject……..
I’m in love with love, so like you Boosy, it hurts when someone hurts someone that you love. People are cruel and they aren’t going anywhere, sorry to say. I’ve learned to rise above their critism and embrace who I am!!!!! I suggest you and your girl and your sister do the same. Love never fails!!!!!!!!!!
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"a mom"
Your so right about loving yourself. And as a black or a women in general I think we all have some of the same issues. But first of all I think you are using her as an excuse. What about the White/Black male thing. You talk about how black women hate because of low self-esteem. What about the black male and how his self-esteem is a reflection of his community. Does every black man choose a white women to prove to the white man he is equal because of the tabu thing. Lets flip the switch a bit. Why are black men so angry. I think that the black man has a love hate thing with the white male and is constantly blaming the black women when he choses to be with a white women. Now guess what. There are a lot of beautiful black women out there with self-esteem far beyond your imagination so I think while we are saying she is so angry, and there are angry women in all races. Let us all take a look in the mirror and ask ourselves. Why are WE so angry at each other. Love who you want to love but don’t blame it on the black community or black women. I love you your woman and all of my brothers and sisters (all races) but I feel you are blaming the black woman for the problems that black men face in their interracial relationships and that is not the problem. Finally yes you get looks but I think that is old. This country is so mixed and the people that really have a problem with it are stuck. The rest of us are trying to move on.
Love Ya,
Mom
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The R
Until the shortage resolved black women need black men…man up and get a sister…people stare cause they wonder if another black man has given up on his sisters..is it just sex..the fever….surrender or love…people don’t know hence they stare.. you know what u got into so deal with it…don’t seek approval…it may never come totaly from the older generation
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troublsome
I look at it as you can’t worry about other people. I notice that when black men date outside their race, they are always trying to justify their blackness or even go out of their way to prove that they love black women. I look at it as you like who you like, and will fall in love in love with whom ever you fall in love with!… We live in America, and there doesn’t have to be a justification to why you date whom ever you date. Boosy it bothers you because you know deep down inside you don’t have a problem with sisters, or you think that society is placing the stereotypical reasons on you as to why it is that you have a whit girl! Who gives a fuck? Live and Let Live, cause at the end of the day we will be all one people anyway. I think that God allows us to integrate with each other so that we can learn about different races, cultures, and creeds.
So I say do what you do. Love black women, Love Asian women, Love Cape Verdian women, Love Brazilian Women, Love Cambodian Women, Love Latino Women, Love Jamaica Women, Love Puerto Rican Women, Love Cuban Women. Love who ever the fuck you fall for…
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Erika
I agree.
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Bakari
Peace,
It is hard to find love and trust.
If you find a person that is great for you, then God bless.
The older I get the more open-minded I am becoming in regards to
matters of the heart. Happiness seems to evade so many people.
If you find that person, hold on to them, regardless of color.
signed..
OJ SIMPSON
CUBA GOODING
SEAL
CORNELL WEST
TIGER WOODS
MIKE STRAHAN
USC FOOTBALL TEAM
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TROUBLMan
A MOM
I agree. The black men who only date white women are lost. I understand if you meet a girl and she happens to be white. But there’s men out there that only look for white women. Within that there’s a certain type of hate for yourself.
How about white women who only date black men. You know there’s a slang term for these women. I heard it before but don’t remember. Can someone please tell me if they know. I want to discuss that.
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boosy
THE R- Not seeking “approval”. I’m marrying her. I talk about it because it’s great convo. Our community doesn’t realy talk about it. hence the pent up stares.
TROUBLMAN- when white men see me with their daughters, they really stare and wonder, how the fuck. This hapnd over the wknd on my way to my rents in westchester, some guys from my town were giving her greazly looks, lol..
MALIA- you are so right, i find that the people who go through a lot in the community are the ones mixed with things, and the hate somes from our own community. Not cool. So black women out ther -expand ur horizons, if black dudes ain’t doing it for u. ur doing urself a disservice by boxing urself in. I’m going to space regardless of how light skinned my children will be with “good ” hair. I hope they have ‘nigger-naps” like their nigerian daddy. I’m proud of my naps.
AMOM- Never do i blame the community, but real is real & black women “hate” . Shit my sister was doing that angry black nonesense on the subway because someone was “staring” at her.. When i’m chilling with my friends from college, it’s nothing out of the ordinary. maybe it could be a socio-economic thing.
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boosy
THE R- man up, my last girlfriend was black and u know what she wanrted to do- pop off and smoke and go to mcdonalds. This is a college educated black woman. It’s not about black /white , personally i could give a fuck about the race of my girl. i know it’s a shock to people but i’m a GLOBAL citizen, living on three continents, i can’t help it if i have a multi-dimensional perspective.
Fathom this- i’ve had educated individuals down my fmaily line that i can trace back to the civilizations of mali, so pardon me if i’m above people narrow minded…..
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TROUBLMan
THE R
If a black man dating a white women is him seeking approval than what is the white women seeking?
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boosy
I’m loving the responses, keep em coming. And i can take criticism…..Muahhhhz~ el duque
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The R
Both sides got baggage and bring that into this mess..
can both sides admit their faults? seems like the answer is no..too many times
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Viper Rogue
TROUBLMAN-
A larger penis.
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The R
TROUBLMAN-
the fever
is it really that big as I hear…(curiosity)
once u go black you don’t go back
white men bore her
she just wants a man period
BOOSY -
don’t get your panties in a bunch…I don’t give a fuck who you date
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boosy
Can you hold this L while i untangle my panties……lol
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Negrita
Viper Rogue —-
Dang you beat me to the punch!
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"a mom"
Boosy
I love that you are global I am the same. My heart is in the same place yours is my heart is so open to the world and all that is in it. And I on my way to the moon also. Maybe I will meet me a new man there. And that educated black girl you dated who liked to pop off and smoke and go to Mcdonalds was just that, “That black girl” not reminiscent of all black white etc. girls. I’m not mad. Give me some holla on what Troublman said.
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boosy
I need to expand my global reach, so i’m taking this act on the road……
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Talisman
Love is love. Period. Same with attraction. If you find it either or both with someone and everything clicks (life attitudes, money, job schedules, etc.), that is all that matters. But living your life by this attitude requires strength of character and will, as well as self-esteem. My view is, if you don’t like how I’m livin’ my life and who I’m dating, get to steppin’.
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boosy
TROUBLMAN- i know on both sides, white women who only date black men. I dated one in high school. Sad to say but she’s messign with white dudes now.
And i also know black men who only date white women. - That’s corny because don’t mistake a strong woman(black or white) for an angry one not. cool.
i don’t know what they are called TROUBLMAN, i call them corny.
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"a mom"
I can’t speak for white women. But I don’t think it’s the penis. I’m sure they have some of the same issues we all face. We can’t put them in a bag just like we can’t put the black women in one.
MALIA- You are beautiful and the color of the rainbow. I am a black women don’t know all I’m mixed with would have to go back to all my ancestors but I’m sure I have white and indian etc. So God bless our differences and let this be the reason we all connect.
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TROUBLMan
VIPER ROUGE
Of course that’s true in some instances. But I can’t agree that all white women put up with ridicule from their friends and family just for a bigger penis?
According to the ladies who commented on the “Does Size Matter?” post, size doesn’t matter.
From my experience, the bond between a black men and white women comes from the shared conflict with white men.
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"a mom"
Now this exclusive thing really bothers. Because if we are talking about loving who you love it’s wrong. You can’t be black, white or whatever and say you only date one race. That is a self problem. Now everyone has preferences like big/small butts, legs, lips or things they like on a person but to say you only date one race is robbing yourself.
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"a mom"
Troubleman
Tell me about that conflict they both share with the white man, and how you came to that conclusion.
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TROUBLMan
Black men have the race conflict that lives between them and white men. White women have the gender conflict. Because of this, they both understand what its like to considered less than when measured against white men. Its a psychological things that most people don’t consciously understand but it’s real.
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Cypher
Thank you for bringing this to light. I date a white woman and it’s because I want to. I get hate looks coming my way from more Back women all the fuckin time and I’m tired of that shit. Stop worrying about me and go find Tyrone’s ass. I will date, marry and fuck whoever the hell I please. What’s really fucked up is that some of the black women who have hated on me were my so call friends I know two them more specifically have probably acted like this out of jealousy but get over it. So “Auntie and Princess African” please let it go. If I’m your friend, why talk shit about my girl and me? That shows no class.
If I was a black woman I would be worrying about finding myself a good man no matter what color he was. By the way I do think that black women are beautiful. My mother is drop dead gorgeous so it’s not about that. I would date Blacks, Whites, Asians, Latinos, etc… But the more you hate on me “sistas” the more I feel justified that I’m not fucking with you!
I don’t care what people think about me. I’m going to do me. And you’re right, I am a good man. I have 3 degrees, I workout, I cook, I clean, hell I even garden. That’s right garden. I had a black girlfriend and that idiot fucked up. So I found somebody who appreciates me and she just happens to be white! FOCUS ON YOU AND STOP HATIN.
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"a mom"
Cyher,
What’s with this tyrone thing. If your really didn’t worry about what people think then where is all this anger coming. Maybe you a focusing to much on the haters and they are winning the battle with your self-esteem. I’m sure your mother is gorgeous and so are alot of black woman as well as other women. Sometimes I think we have this feeling that people are going to hate on us before we even get into a black/white relationship because basically all races promote staying within races. Think about it. Are white people going to be open arms to you when your women brings you home to meet the family. All races have problems not just black women.
Troublman.
So black women don’t know about being considered less than! And is that why you have that understanding with the white woman. I’m serious ! I guess the blackwomen has been the one sitting on the throne thru American history. I’m very puzzeled on what you are saying. I don’t feel no hate for loving, but I don’t agree with the blame.
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Dutchess
I am so happy to see people talking! This is so real, that it makes you want to say something doesn’t it? I am that white woman with a black man, and all I am seeking is our lives together happy, and in love. I know it is mushy but that is what it is. I hate to think of our happiness being ridiculed or hated on, I guess we are just not at the level of some others who think that we shouldn’t be together because of how we look. I mean really….are you serious? Love is Love, and I am so happy to have it. Check out my Fever post…
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Cypher
A MOM- the Tyrone thing is basically saying to the black females out there go and find your black man. If they’re going to relegate themselves to one group they will find that they are limiting their options.
No one can ever bring down my self esteem and confidence. It couldn’t be hire but that is exactly why I’m able to say what I say. I don’t have any problem with Black women. I have a problem with ignorant people and the behavior that I see is ignorant. There is no excuse for that.
In regards to white folks having open arms I will say this, as a person who sees a lot of covert racism I can say that my girlfriends entire family has been nothing but respectful even more so than my own. I have never even thought about the race issue when I’m around them. When I go to visit my family in the hood it’s a different story.
A MOM - I don’t know your relationship status but think about it this way, imagine if you met a wonderful white man and he did everything in the world that makes you happy. Then imagine if you took him to one of your favorite functions (let’s say church) and all your people were giving you look and your “friends” said distasteful things about you and him? Now imagine that happen every time you were among your people? How would you feel?
I’m very happy in my situation but I feel I have every right to be disappointed with some of my people.
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"a mom"
Yes you do son. I’m not trying to make you feel bad. My heart has only love for you and your women. You know if I could show you my family you would really see what it’s supposed to be like. Not saying I don’t have ignorant members because we all have those few. But in general If I meet a good white man, mind you good white man I would have no problem bringing him to my family. My brohter is married to a white women who is a queen and loves my bother to death. She is real. and my other brother is married to an asian queen. We have a gay member and his lover in our family and we get together all the time. Christmas, thanksgiving, birthdays. We go camping. Matter of fact we are getting together all the women saturday to go to see a play. You name it our family finds a reason to participates together. My brothers don’t have a problem with themselves or their women so why should we. My heart will always be open to a good man not a color. You iknow I have been hurt by a few brothers in my life but I will never ever blame a black man or any man for what I allow someone to do to me. I don’t even hate those brohter who hurt me, because they have their hurts to. And again I’m glad you sad ignorant PEOPLE hate.
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39.ways.of.troubl
Dating someone one should never be about the color of someone skin. Instead, it should be about the heart, the soul, and being in a relationship. People on outside their race because some maybe more cultured than others, not looked at differently because they have “non-black interest”.
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Terrance L
Personally for me I never have dated outside my race or ethnicity (Race: African Ethnicity: Black Nationality: American) and I dont really plan on doing it.
I have from my studies found that when we do it, its generally is over some kind of esteem issue or self hating. We also do it because its a status symbol.
When they do it they are are generally in rebellions against their culture and status quo.
Again, while I am pretty solid on my knowledge and Black Studies skills, I am gonna in the interest of fair play use the word generally to account for variances.
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Fleetwood Rock
Why I Can`t I Fuck Them, Just Cause I want to????
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Crystal
People need to seek love whereever it presents itself. I for one will love a man whether he is black, white, whatever. I prefer black men but I am looking for a man who will love me, the real me, and if that happens to be a white man I will take him with open arms.
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Terrance L.
Find this sister a brother who can love her, talk to her, put up with her, listen to her, put up with her, love her and hit it right quick!
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ndira love
Amen to that. Some times i wish i was atracted to other white men beside brad pitt. lol. because you try to be strong and show a brotha you love them and they take all you have to give. you get tired of the bs after a while. Find a brother who will STAY. Not run when shit gets tough. A black man who is a real man - strong and has some sense of committment and thinks further than the length of his dick!
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ndira love
Terrance, you never told me you wanted to be my captain save-a-Flo.
lol
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Terrance L.
I’m trying hard to save all of my embittered racial line crossing sisters from hating their Black men.
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Crystal
Why bitter? Just opening up for real love. Why sit and wait for the Black Knight when you can go out and get who is coming to you.
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The R
yea yea so black men don’t come chasing after the nookie?
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Terrance
of course we dont. and those that do get ignored unless we look and talk like fiddy
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"a mom"
TERRANCE L. So are you saying just marry in your race even if you fall in love with another race. I don’t think self-esteem is a race issue when it come to falling in love (Real Love) not sex, symbols or rebellion. You can’t control your heart.
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Cypher
Trust me I do not.
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Cypher
Also Mom I can tell by reading your comments over time that you are a very intelligent person but you don’t me well enough to say anything about my self-esteem or confidence. But if you feel compelled to analyse me understand that my views can be different from your views and that can stem from our backgrounds and experience and not necassarily because I have issues. In the realm of relationships I can and routinely do what I want. I have first hand experience in this matter and I’m just telling you what I see. You don’t have to agree with that but don’t just assume that the problem is that I have issues. After all if I did have issues regarding this topic I would be more than forthcoming because like said earlier I am comfortable enough with who I am.
I do have issues but none of them involve this topic.
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TROUBLMan
Terrance I love my sisters too,but I love white girls. fuck it, I love all women. I can’t limit myself because I happened to be born black. That’s backwards. My view is bigger than that. I see all people as my family because we are one species, but maybe that’s just me thinking on a universal level?
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"a mom"
I’m sorry and your right. I’m not questioning your self-esteem. And your world is far ahead of me i’m learning everyday from all of you that my opinion does count. We are both coming from some of the same experiences and views as you said are just what they are. Mine and yours. If we all felt the same about the issues, we wouldn’t be here and this world would be in a different kind of trouble. This is about Fire and Passion and it’s good to see that some of us still have it. I think our lives need more Troubl. Don’t you?
Mom
P.S. Keep teaching me.
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boosy
No doubt there are men who do it for a status symbol. The issue is different for many as depending on who you are background and such, you may have been living in an area that frowns on such behavior.
However many families in the burbs Westchester county mine for example have neighborhoods that are racially balanced and this is not an issue. I find that the issue tends to relate more to socio-economic background on the extreme. In most cases the lower extreme.
i’m sure if you had a couple of million you wouldn’t even see haters because you’re moving from provate car-to jet to villa as i will be doing in spain.
I’ll def. keep in touch if i spy any haters in Marbella.Sir Bougie black AKA Duke Boosy
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ms 39ways of trouble
you have to be with someone you relate too and are attracted too. Being obligated to staying within your race will only limit you, from possibly finding Mr. or Mrs. right. You have to be with the person that makes you smile and compliments your personality best, regardless on skin color.
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mary
love doesnt have a color it just seeks its match..so in that case,,its the bitter ones who havent found their match…its the ones who are so busy complaining about the man messin their life up because they keep picking the wrong man. don’t get mad cuz you dont have good taste in men. if you stopped looking for a gucci purse to wear with your fendi dress and started looking for someone who could make you smile, then ur life might not be so miserable. once they see a white chick and a black guy happy, possibly someone they never would have even saught out, they instantly get angry. once this man is off the market…then they wanna get angry because they are officially taken. if they would stop bitching and start looking at a man for his qualities and not his qualities, we wouldn’t have so much racial tension over who is dating who and for once we may just see people for themselves instead of how light or dark their skin color is.
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MERK
You know…women are such sensitive creatures. They want what they cant have. Me. I get in where i fit in…if i connect more with a chick that just so happens to be a white girl, I’m automatically not gonna forward all the talk from people…i know i love black women…for reasons that can be explaiined only as this: Strength…i feel like black Women (not girls) are mental She-Hulks! They can make it through anything and they are so confident and independent. They come like a 2 dollar bill, tho. And 9 times outta 10 the black girls that are side-bustin are just that…Lil ass girls…
you gotta love it sometimes, tho. cuz it helps you know who’s really good and who’s just blah
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MERK
but chea…they still sensitive
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"A Mom"
We all have our own opinions and we can talk all day about this post because we are all very compassionate about what we feel about love. But remember at one time color did matter in our country and some of the same people that talk about it are the same ones who were against it. Racism is still a hurtful subject and it is alive and well and we can’t ignore it. And there are truly reason for the feelings people have. At one time a Black man would get lynched if he had half a eye on a white women, How many men of other colors in our country did this happen to. and now he wonders why people hate. Just think of where it all began. Believed me it affects him still not just the looks, but it affects them in other aspects of life. The man is always watching you. The real change needs to happen in all of us. So when you all keep talking about that women who’s hating to look at the whole world not just her. She not the real enemy.
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Mary
for the above comment…correction, thats quality and quantity not qualities written twice…….anyway..one of my big problems is when white women are stereotyped as idiots that will do anything for their big black boyfriend. i hear many black men run to white girls because they dont complain as much, aren’t as hard on them, and are pretty much more naiive then a 5 year old. white women aren’t known for their “strength” as black women are, they are known for their so called freak “skills” by sucking the pigment out of a penis on command. I beg to differ on these stereotypes, I dont care what color a woman is, each one can only take so much bullshit and has enough strength to walk away from a bad situation. It’s just that every woman has their own tipping point. As a white woman, I have as much strength as any black, latino, asian, indian or whatever culture woman out there. It depends on a person’s struggles and the way they handle them. I’ve made my mistakes but I make sure I learn from them. My point is, if you want a weak woman, go find yourself a crackhead.
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Mary
one of my big problems is when white women are stereotyped as idiots that will do anything for their big black boyfriend. i hear many black men run to white girls because they dont complain as much, aren’t as hard on them, and are pretty much more naiive then a 5 year old. white women aren’t known for their “strength” as black women are, they are known for their so called freak “skills” by sucking the pigment out of a penis on command. I beg to differ on these stereotypes, I dont care what color a woman is, each one can only take so much bullshit and has enough strength to walk away from a bad situation. It’s just that every woman has their own tipping point. As a white woman, I have as much strength as any black, latino, asian, indian or whatever culture woman out there. It depends on a person’s struggles and the way they handle them. I’ve made my mistakes but I make sure I learn from them. My point is, if you want a weak woman, go find yourself a crackhead.
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Ronnie B.troubl
Love yourself and then love whoever the fuck you want to. I do agree in some cases there some are socially and psycologically fuck’d up but i know thats not the case in your situation boos so do you. Ultimately its your life so live it, and bring back some of that maroccan stuff!!
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Boosy
As it’s really all about the global consciousness, i’d like to share an anecdotal update.
I was having a conversation with the Representative at a owners cocktail about three hours ago. Somehow the convo led to barack obama and hilary. i was trying to explain to her why i thought barack would win.
Then i mentioned the muslim thing because we could see africa from the resort cocktail lounge and the moors (muslim conquerors) conquering and being in spain for 800 years. Then i said that a lot of people mostly black were questioning baracks blackness. She couldn’t even fathom what that was.
She then said the mors conquered us for 800 years , shit saudi arabians come to the resort and walk around in their clothing in the burning heat. We respect them, they respect us, who gives a fuck. We are all so close.
I laughed maybe because america is 200 years old, and young - however we grew up too fast without the experience needed to guide the country in the founding fathers idea of liberty, freedom & justice.
The point here is, spain was pretty much owned by the moors for 800 years and they got over it, i almost cried because, here we are as americans claiming to be the baddest and we are questioning some guys BLACKNESS. CAN YOU EVEN define blackness. i’m sorry ya’ll but we’re on some damn coonery…
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Boosy
the reason why i say this, is beacause , yea slavery happened, and jim crow and all that, but it’s like our elders are holding on to the past - mostly the negative shit , meanwhile the moors and saudis and no one gives a fuck, they are busy enjoying life. So first off enjoy life and get over the black/white thing.
before i am a black man , i am a human. that is how i grew up , then i move and realize that it’s very different and actually we are moving backwards. sayw hat u want, but i have never had a convo about someone being to white.,
meanwhile i have heard black people say that someone is too white and the person in reference was black. Sorry i can’t fathom it, maybe i am really a bougie black. or maybe i just have better things to do. So guys i’m going out to the clubs here with my white girl and were going to try and buy a yatch. It’s ok i know niggas don’t swim…lol i’m serious , i can’t swim….but my girl will teach me, because i’m not opposed to trying new things, even if i could die..i hope not.
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"a mom"
The word is HUMAN BEING. Not black, white, asian, latino etc. Love who you want and love with all your heart. And the rest will take care of itself.
Remember HATERS come in all colors.
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mann,
yeaaaa! * in the voice of dude in jail with Eddie Murphy in Trading Places*
fuck if a person is black, blue, white, yellow, brown or midget..
attraction comes from within just like who someone will love..
past experiences may help determine who a person will/will not date..
or they may not?
why should it matter? love/like, talk to the person cause they are a person that you love/like etc. not because they the best (best you can do) black, white, brown, blah blah girl/boy you can do..
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P.S.
i seen this shit had 60 comments so i just wanted to be apart of it..
hahahahahah..
TROUBL!
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