Does Size Matter?

Written by: SB

Recently, I’ve been happy to replace the old sex toys with a real lust shaft. I was even more happy that this particular bruiser is large…I never considered myself a “size-queen”…you know the women who refuse to have sex with a man unless he’s well-endowed but I find that size is important to me…my most recent ex had a good-sized baton and I was not willing to downgrade….matter of fact, I wanted an upgrade…so I’ve been happy with the new pipe in my life…

But that’s when it hit me…does the size of the sword really determine how much damage it can inflict?

Now this is a classic debated topic in women circles around the globe…does size matter?

I’ve gotten all types of answers to this question…some women say “hell yeah it matters…you can’t get full off crumbs”….and I’ve also heard the whole, “its not the motion in the ocean, it’s the motion of the ocean” (not really sure how that saying goes but whatever)…Some women believe that the size does not matter as long as the man knows how to use what he has….but can passion, technique and experience really replace the dimensions? And are well-equipped men automatically better lovers?

Then I started to think about men and how proud they are of their biological feature. You can always tell when a man knows he has a huge love stick by the way he pulls it out…you know what I’m talking about…the man that will step back, drop their pants and let you get a look at what’s about to cause you a sensational episode. I’ve even heard of men comparing the size of their stingers at a young age…so do men link their sexual capabilities with their size? And are woman partly responsible for this obsession with size? If so, we must not be that different from other mammals that are attracted to the size and appearance of certain features…

Tags: Sex, Women | Mar 10, 2008 |

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"a mom"

Not at all. I think we have the wrong idea of what a good sex partner can do with his piece. Some women think it is all on the man. He has to make you feel a certain way or he is not big enough. I think it is all in how he knows. Pleasure doesn’t come from a piece it come from what he puts into it. Just like after a women who has kids and he says she is too big and not tight enough. Does that really matter or is it how she works it and how she put herself all into it. Sex is not one sided. I haven’t had a lot of relationship as far as sex goes but after my divorce the ones I had were good experiences because I learned how to make love. That’s the key knowing how. So a piece means nothing without the know how. Also some women need to learn how participate in the process.

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"a mom"

P.S.
It’s all a myth. and is very mental.

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TROUBLMan

A MOM

Most people aren’t concerned with making love. Most people don’t even understand love and the emotional side of sex. You have men and women out here who believe they are nothing more than their physical. It’s cool though cause I let them have that. The reason being is that girls with the beach bodies encounter the the phenomenom called gravity and everything starts to drop. And at some point men lose the ability to get erect. When a couple reaches this point size is out the window.

One thing I will say about size is that it lets you get away with shit. If you coming correct in bed, women forgive you for shit that they shouldn’t put up with.

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"a mom"

Well I don’t call that a relationship because ofter you get out of bed. What!

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Cypher

Let me start off by saying, I think this is a great topic. I love sex. I have a big penis and I’m quite proud of it.

I believe that for most women that size does matter. It turns them on more and as result the sex is better. I’m not a female but I would imagine if a man with a small piece revealed his dagger that the woman might think to herself “Ohhh, it’s so cute.” If she is a kind woman she might try to make him feel better without saying anything negative.

Great sex comes when both people feel really turned on and size can only help turn on your lover. So, size does matter. Sorry little homies.

By the way, we could also talk about how every man says he has a big dick when in fact they are lying. A little advice for my fellow man, IF YOU DON’T HAVE A BIG DICK IT’S OK JUST DON’T LIE AND SAY YOU DO. ALSO IF YOU’RE NOT SURE HOW BIG YOU ARE DON’T ASK YOUR GIRL, SHE WILL LIE TO YOU TO MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER. ASK A FEMALE FRIEND WHO YOU TRUST NOT TO TELL ANYONE IF YOU’RE WORRIED ABOUT IT GETTING AROUND. When you lie about IT, your only making yourself look bad because lying about your size is like lying about being pregnant, the truth will be EXPOSED at some point.

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Cypher

I agree with you on this Mom, sex is mental, you have to be confident fellas. Don’t worry about your short comings. Take sports for instance you know sometimes the most talented guys aren’t the ones who make it the furthest it’s the ones who work harder at it. But just like in sports having size helps.

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"a mom"

Cypher
Sometimes size can hurt. (You have to know how to us it.) Some can be turned off to a man who doesn’t know what he is doing. And don’t say that all big pieces know how to handle things. There are some who are clueless.

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choppaboy

when i comes down to just sex. Size matters!! I bet if you ask any women if she ever been turned off by a guy because of his “vienna sausage” I bet you they will all say yup!!

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Tiffany

Most people don’t know that when a woman first starts the act of sex, very rarely is she actually horny, or sexually stimulated (ie. blood rushing to the clitoris, or a female erection). This could stem from the male’s lack of attention to the female body and just rushing to get their nut, or the male’s lack or carelessness of foreplay. However, if a female were to be sexually stimulated, the old saying for “motion of the ocean” may count for something. As one to have experienced sex on both sides of the fences I can truly say that foreplay does go a long way. So for fellas who may be reading this and are lacking in length or girth, remember your penis hardly comes close to being the only sexual weapon you have. Creativity and effort goes a long way when it comes to sex.

-”You can be an idiot with a big stick, or a nerd with a great lick… guess which one comes out on top?”- TB

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choppaboy

I wanna hear from some ladies who seem to always keep it real on this site………………….How big is too big?……………………..Or how small is too small…………………..Every nigga, big or small of all ages still wanna know that!!!!

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Q.

honestly, i’m not concerned about the size of some other dude.. i’m experienced with what i have.. back in high school, i probably was wishing i knew if i was average or big, but i’m good now.. i have yet to have a chick put her clothes back on after my pants hit the floor, so i have a bit of confidence knowing i’m alright..

i also believe you gotta know what you’re doing with it.. you can feel that you should get a starring role in the next porno, but if you’re only good for a few pumps, then you’re probably going to get laughed at more than some dude battling chinese dudes to see who is longer.. i’m just sayin’..

i think it’s a great topic, but personally, i’m not searching to see where i measure up.. unless this comes with “open auditions”, it’s all good conversation.. and please, fellas, don’t try to come with slick “dude must no size up” jokes.. trust me, i’m good with what i have..

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"a mom"

Tiffany,
Loved what you said.
Q. No one is doubting you. But what you said in the second paragraph make a lot more sense.
Love Ya
Mom

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TROUBLMan

I’m going to reiterate, size matters because it lets you get away with stuff. Let a dude with a small thing act up. His girl will leave quick. On the other hand, a dude who’s packing, his girl knows he can get some elsewhere and she’s more likely to put up with bullshit.

Most of the time this plays itself out subconsciously. A woman will stay without realizing that all she’s attached to is the sex.

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"a mom"

I really don’t believe that. I’m sure that is not a accurate statement. A women may take a lot from a man with a small thing that knows how to please her and kick the big one to the curb because he thinks he has the advantage but can’t handle her.

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Troublsome

I think that size does really matter. I think most females won’t admit that and don’t really understand that to be true. I think it is something that indirectly continues to hypnotize women. Just like Troublman said, it allows you to get away with things that you normally shouldn’t…

We are putting a lot of emphasis on does the size of a mans penis. But I have a question. What about women who are just no good in bed, boring, and repetitive? You can only teach someone so much!

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sb

Troublesome- I’m glad that you mentioned the womens role in sex- I have to ask- what is a boring sex partner? Is it a woman who’s quiet? Or a woman who can’t throw it back like you would want? What about a womens size? Do men really care if she has a big ass and titties? Does it make the sex any better? When does it become a prerequisite and not a preference?

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Troublsome

I think I would have to say someone who just kind of just lays there and expects you to do all of the work! You want the passion between the two of you to go both ways and feed off of each others energy. You want a woman who is not quiet of course, but at the same time not annoyingly loud neither! I personally like think women and have never been a big fan of titties. But a big ass is definitely a prerequisite in my book. All ass no tits is perfectly fine with me. And I myself haven’t had an enormous amount of sexual partners but understand that chemistry amongst sexual partners is the most important aspect of sex…

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Talisman

Oh, this debate again. LOL. Okay, let’s start with the whole size thing. I mess with women across ethnic lines (that may get me in trouble in here…) but every woman is different. For me, I’ve heard comments ranging from, “baby, that’s just right!” to “damn baby, I can’t take all dat!” So the size argument, while valid, rests with the individual female.

Tiffany
You make an excellent point. I’ve been messin’ with females for awhile and it takes time to “stir” the pot sometimes. Foreplay and attention goes a long way, big dick or not.

SB
There is nothing worse than an unenthusiastic sex partner. Thankfully, I’ve only had one. As much as she talked shit, I expected nuclear bombs but she was just pop rocks. While I agree that guys must do their part, women need to step up too (especially when you talk hella shit…).

Okay, to finesse this argument, this is the statement to take with you. Men go back for bammer punani, as long as the get their nut (but that chocha is low on the booty call list). From almost all of my female friends, they say “if the dick is whack, we ain’t going back!”. LOL. So the litmus test for all men is, is she trying to “climb back on again”? If so, you obviously did something right… and that really is all that matters.

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BIG Tone

Its funny how all the guys say size matters and the women don’t care. If you know what your doing you can get a girl off with your pinky finger. Plus it depends on the women too. Some women will not reach orgasm with just penetration so it don’t matter what your packin. If it is just a one night stand who cares. If it is with someone you have a deeper relationship with then you should take the time to find out what one another likes. I’m married so I forgot what sex is, but I do know sex is not a game of inches, it only counts if you score.

On another note. I thought it was funny how Cypher started by saying he has a big penis and is proud of it, but finished by saying every man says he has a big dick when in fact they are lying. That is good shit. LMAO

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choppaboy

Funny how all the dudes is gettin so personal…………I guess that answers the initial question of this subjuct..Hell yea it matters!!!!!………….probly more to men then the females.

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Malia

Yall are doin wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too much! Is this what happens when I leave yall alonefor one day?????? *shakin my head*

Size definitely matters! Sorry to burst any man’s bubble who isn’t livin on the LARGER side of life. It really does. LOL @ Q —— see, it also gives you a certain amount of confidence!

LOL @ TROUBLMAN —–and yes, we will cuss yall out, but we will let you redeem yourselves in the bedroom…lol. Sad but true……

My ex-lover (I’m sure yall are sick of hearing about him……geesh!!!!) had a beautiful dick…lol. I would tell him that all the time. It was brown all over and big and mmmm (I wrote a poem about it…lol), it seemed like he was made especially for me and I was especially made for him. I remember screaming and climbing the walls……

*okay, okay I’m back*

I would cuss his ass out on a regular basis too, so a big dick and a smile ain’t all it’s cracked up to be. Don’t get it twisted!

And yes Q I must agree with you, just because you THINK you should be front and center in somebody’s porn movie, doesn’t necessarily mean your partner feels the same way. My ex used to tell me I “gave good sex”—-what does that mean?…lol. I will take the compliment though……Nobody wants a dead head in the bedroom.

((no pun intended))

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Q.

Malia has all these women trying to google her ex now!!

See, there is nothing like having free promotion!! And having a promotion that talks about being a “runner”.. For all those dudes thinking they doing it right, read what Malia said.. if you’ve never had a woman “scoot away” from you while you were having sex, then yeah, keep trying.. classic stuff.. a woman will actually push you up off of her.. am i lying??

nah, lemme stop..

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sb

Big tone- have you forgot about sex because you make love in your marriage? Malia- I love that you kept it real about your ex’s piece- my ex had a beautiful chocolate stick with a strawberry head and that made it hard as hell for me to move on- I still think about that magic wand from time to time- lol

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BIG Tone

SB…

NO!!!! lol

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sb

Big tone-lmao- don’t hate! ill leave the deleting to the editors- I’m sure my description is no more graphic than the lyrics to certain songs you know by heart- lol

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Malia

FUCK HIM!!!!!!!! LOL ((I want to……))

No but really…….FUCK HIM!!!!!!

Okay, okay Q you are absolutely right!!! LMAO—— I can’t even lie. Gentlemen, If your girl isn’t out of breath and sweating and biting on a pillow and damn near convulsing then you need another plan…..read a book, buy a DVD, you need to re-group and start from the beginning (remedial classes) until you get that ish right!!!!! Please believe we talk about sex just like yall do and we rate yall just like yall rate us!!!!

Okay I went into my archives and found the Dick Poem: ((LOL))

You are inside of me

It feels like you’re waist deep

You got yourself out of the holster

And you took it off safety

You have enough inches

To delve deep inside me

I’m willing to sway wherever

Your body takes me

I am the rose

That cracked the surface

And you have been harder

Then concrete lately

Whisper in my ear

And say I’m about to cum

You’re a thief

You steal breaths

Until I can’t speak baby

I am your leading lady

Stand by your side

Even though right about now

My knees are shaky

In between my thighs it feels achy

Your manhood activates at my touch

Just touch me there to awake me

Who said firearms

Were deadly

Yours got me waist deep

*wink*

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BIG Tone

SB-

This is the porn area! Making love is only for the movies and your favorite books to read when you are on the shitter. When your are married you will take a quicky at half time. As far as his magic wand…I guess it didn’t have that much magic after all. I am sure you came out on top. lol ; )

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MERK

Big Tone and SB-

Chicks try and act like size matters. Which kinda gets guys on edge about it…either insecure or over estimating or braggin…cuz why would ANYONE measure the size of the package…niggas aint UPS, son!
I honestly get connected wit my chick…alotta dudes keep to themselves and don’t express shit to their lady. But the more u let out, the more connected you are. The more connected you are, the better the humpin’, dig?…Be it porno style shit or the slo-mo sex scene in a romance movie…it’s gon be one hell of an experience…

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KASSIE.G

Well believe it duz cus dicks just be hittin dat spot and kaplowy… And they just intimidate me. . . While tha smallies make me laugh and clown them. ((sorri kent. U didnt make ma cut))

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ayesha

ok….um im not a pro at the whole sex thing…but i must say it does not matter….i was with a guy for 3 years who had the biggest dick…but he NEVER satisfied me. when we broke up i was with someone else who had a smaller one, but his head game was on point and he knew what to do….licking, sucking ,…..ooooooohhhhhhh just thinking about that man….and now me and by guy got back together and i would trade his big dick in for someone who knew what they were doing in a minute.

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TROUBL

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