Secret Stares

Written by: SB

I went to visit my special friend recently. I was in need of some stress relief and good company. We started off with the usual pleasantries…updating each other since the last time we spoke, laughing and discussing his new puppy. After awhile I grew restless, my inner temptress was growling so I made a move to stimulate his inner beast and it worked ;-)…we were making our way up to his room in no time.

We began our wrestle of thrusts and kisses and afterwards he excused himself to dispose of the evidence; I reluctantly got up to gather my clothes that were scattered across his floor. I happened to look out of his window to find a neighbor staring back at me. I yelped and immediately dropped to the ground where I was out of sight… embarrassed as I crawled around on the ground naked looking for my panties…so many thoughts ran through my mind…how long had the neighbor been there? How much had he seen? I alerted my friend of the peeping-tom…he checked and was just as surprised…he struggled to find some clothes to shield himself as well. After escaping to the lower level of his house we were able to joke about the situation…and were back to enjoying each others company.

The crazy part is…in retrospect… I enjoyed the thought of someone watching…I know, I know but it’s true. I’ve stumbled across neighbors that were in the act before and was not impressed enough to keep watching (matter of fact, two out of three times I was disgusted)…so maybe it was the fact that he was blatantly interested in his free show that made me feel good about myself. Don’t get me wrong…I’m not interested in having future audiences but it was a thought-provoking experience. It made me wonder about strippers, porn stars and all exhibitionists’…are they so abnormal for indulging in this guilty pleasure? Don’t we all want to be admired for our physiques and talents…don’t women wear short skirts and low cut shirts for this reason? Or how about men who wear muscle shirts?…are we all secret exhibitionists?

Tags: Reality, Sex, Society | Mar 24, 2008 |

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Talisman

Maybe…. I think most of us like to be admired for our taste in clothes, our taste in cars, and/or our physical appearances. Society gears our needs toward this. As for getting caught In flagrante, that shit happens ALL da time! LOL. Part of the fun of life (plus it can lead to mo’ ass….).

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TRAVELING MAN

To each his own…Some people thrive on attention and some don’t. Me personally, I like to do my dirt on the low without eyeballs lurking around. However, our culture is geared on attention and different ways one could go about getting it. Whatever means a person need to feel valued that’s there perspective.

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"a mom"

I think if you are in the moment you really don’t think about who is looking, but I can understand your shock afterwards.
I think that if you are comfortable with yourself and your body it won’t matter as much. Just hope that peeping tom is not a killer or something.

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Q.

i’m not sure if i would openly request extra eyes, but i know i’ve done things in front of others before (knowingly and unknowingly) and it did feel exciting.. wasn’t always the smartest thing, but hey, i was younger back then.. nowadays, with everything coming back to bite you, i’m not sure if i would do it again (knowingly)..

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BIGTone

See you on YouTube lol

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*SB*

Talisman…
You are so funny…lead to more ass huh? Someone is confident in their sexual capabilities! lol

Big Tone…
Thats exactly what I said to my friend when it was all said and done…lol

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RECON

I have the Voyeur/Exhibitionis gene…LOVE BOTH

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The R

lol

what da hell right?

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Malia

Usually we’re spent after a great episode so we collapse in each other’s arms and I fall asleep on his chest. Looking out windows isn’t high on our “to do” list……..just sleep in anticipation for ROUND 2!!!!!

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troublsome

Most people would say that they would be kinda wierd about someone who just happened to be watching your intimacy with their partner. But the truth of the situation is that it kinda turns people on. It may in some cases make it that much better for you. Anticipation of someone maybe catching you in a randon place making love is sometimes a fun thing as well.

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Malia

The element of surprise can be a definite aphrodisiac….I won’t deny that….I just wouldn’t want my business all out there for the world to see….

I might have to charge em!

LOL

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TROUBLMan

Depending on my performance, I’d feel either flattered or embarrassed. I like my privacy before it all though…

The thing that gets me is the people who let others watch without telling you, you know on some hide-in-the-closet shit. Anyone ever had that experience?

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SB

Troublman….
im not clear on what your talking about…explain!….

it was this unexpected experience that gave me a glimpse into the another world… but i would much rather keep my sexual experiences private…i share it with troubl ppl because i trust that you all can relate and understand the soap opera that is my life!!!

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BIGTone

TROUBLMAN

Hell yeah. Its nuts. I will have to tell you more about that shit later. HAHAHAHAHAHA.

MALIA you read to many books. I think you try to lay on his chest and talk while he rolls over and falls asleep. lol

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Malia

BIGTONE——-

Nigga you don’t read enough!!!!!

Trust me, when we’re finished I’m not trying to talk, and if you did it right, neither would your girl……

LOL…..

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Malia

TROUBLMAN—–

I’m a very private person as well and I don’t think it’s all about performance when you’re with who you wanna be with. I think TROUBLSOME said it best on another post that it’s wonderful when you feed off of the other person’s energy. Lights, action, camera isn’t conducive to letting nature takes it course.

SB———

I feel you girl! Been there, done that! I pass no judgements and ask no qualifying questions. You should read some of my work, I think you would find that we’re not so different.

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*SB*

Troublman…
I’ve never had that experience….thats some shady business!!!

Malia…
Thanks I can tell from some of your blogs that we are alot alike!

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"a mom"

When your really into a person. Anythings possible.

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BIGTone

Did I hit a nerve?

I don’t have time to read the game is on! I am like Mike Tyson 1 min KO in the 1st round! LOL.

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Talisman

SB
LOL! You know I got it like dat…

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MERK

dont nobody care if someones watchin…if they stuck around til the end then at least one of ya’ll was gettin the dam thang…cuz no one likes to watch stiff dry sex…LMAO!!!

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TROUBL

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